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PUMPKINS, PUMPKINS & MORE PUMPKINS!

  • Oct 15, 2017
PUMPKINS, PUMPKINS & MORE PUMPKINS!
Halloween has always held a special place in my heart. I love how it lets adults act like little kids and how it lets kids’ imagination take flight. I love the cooling temperatures, sipping on big mugs of hot cocoa, walking on crunchy and colorful leaves, and indulging on all the apple and pumpkin treats. I love how it kick starts all my favorite holidays and traditions, and puts everyone in a festive mood. With that said, this Halloween has been my FAVORITE yet!!
There is something so magical about watching your baby grow up, and having her take part in family traditions. This was the first year that Dannica was old enough to understand and fully embrace the holiday spirit. It made everything so much more memorable because I know that each year will be different and special as she grows up and able to do more and understand more. But I think I will forever and always remember THIS year because to Dannica, it was really her first ever Halloween and all things pumpkins!

Dannica’s FIRST visit to the pumpkin patch at 13 months!

Also! Bella’s first visit to the pumpkin patch!!

And speaking of pumpkins…she is OBSESSED with pumpkins! Carving pumpkins, pumpkin patches, pumpkin treats, pumpkin this, pumpkin that, pumpkin everything!! I love how when she sees pumpkins, she will literally run over, and give it a hug and a kiss as if it were a long lost friend.

Did we really pick out so many?! :O

Flexing her muscles and getting ready to push her wagon full of pumpkins!

Realized she needed some help hahahaha!

This weekend we carved all the pumpkins that Dannica picked out from our visits to the pumpkin patch (bless her little heart, she even picked out a pumpkin for baby brother!!!<3) It was so adorable how she took her little jobs so seriously. She is only two, so my husband and I did all the carving. But Dannica loved lifting all the pumpkin lids (she would say, “Nana so stroooooooong”), scooping out all the seeds, turning on the LED candles, throwing them into the pumpkin and closing the lid. We gave her some acrylic paint to decorate her itty bitty pumpkin while we did the carving, and that was just perfect for her little hands and mind to be kept busy so that she didn’t feel left out from the carving. And the best part–watching her jump up and down and squeal with excitement when she saw all the pumpkins lined up in a row and lit up in the dark… My heart could burst from just watching her so happy.

This photo is definitely a skip down memory lane. FIRST time carving pumpkins EVER in our first home as a married couple. My husband who grew up all-American in Kansas had to teach me step-by-step on what to do hahahha.

First pumpkin! This one is of my husband 🙂

Just me & Dave, but a tradition is born!

This year, we decided to repeat our Jack-O-Lantern family of pumpkins. And it’s been so fun to look back at the very first time we did this when it was just me and Dave. And here we are now…*almost* a family of FIVE!!! It could be the pregnancy hormones, but I started tearing up watching our little family evolve and grow. And I think that’s the BEST part about the holidays–It forces you to pause and cherish the important things in life…

TWO month old Dannica <3!!! She is dressed up as Dorothy and Bella as Toto (in honor of my husband’s Kansas roots).

All lit up outside our first home!

And now *almost* a family of 5!

 

DANNICA’S PLAYROOM

  • Oct 11, 2017
DANNICA’S PLAYROOM

This room has by far been the MOST FUN and definitely my favorite room to conceptualize and plan. I’m a little sad because in a few short months, I plan on redecorating Dannica’s playroom into her “big girl” bedroom (since baby brother will be taking over her current nursery). I put so much love and attention into this room, and we made so many wonderful memories here, that it is a bit bittersweet to let it go. This post is in one part to “scrapbook” Dannica’s very first playroom, and in second part to *finally* field all the questions that so many of you have asked me in the past few months with regards to seeing photos of her playroom, tips on keeping it clean, and where I sourced all the furnishings and decorative accents.

Here are five things that I thought were helpful to keep in mind when conceptualizing a fun and functional playroom that you AND your kids will love!

1. As you would for a nursery, build off a theme when designing a playroom. Whether it be based off colors, textures, or something more activity based like camping. It will give the room a more cohesive and “cleaner” look.

2. Keep everything in the background BRIGHT! That means all textiles (rugs, throw pillows, etc), lighting, drapes, wall color, and large furniture. It will make the room appear larger, brighter, cleaner, and easier to redecorate when you want to switch things up. I also think that kids play better in a bright and airy room.

3. Don’t put everything out. Rotate toys and books. This is a win-win for all. Your kiddos will love the fresh rotation of toys once they’re brought out and the room will look tidier and will be easier to clean up!

4. Mix high and low priced pieces to achieve a beautiful playroom without breaking the bank. Purchase affordable items that will get a lot of wear and tear, and then thread in nicer accent pieces to bring your room to life. Dannica’s play table, kitchenette, seating and all textiles are from IKEA. All textiles are machine washable and were less than 15 dollars!

 

5. Last but not least, DIY and make it your own. It doesn’t have to be an elaborate week long project. It can be a simple and creative use of a can of spray paint or a roll of washi tape. Some simple things I did was to spray paint Dannica’s shopping cart rose gold (it was originally hot pink) and replace the seat’s fabric. I also used washi tape on her play table and chairs where I knew would get dirty easily. So now, not only does it look more unique, it is much easier to wipe off markers and food stains off the tape than it would have been with the original wood. I also used washi tape to create the silhouette of a home and chimney. I love how it turned out and it was a simple by product of me being too scared to put up wallpaper and too cheap to purchase wall decals (aren’t they just large stickers??). A bigger DIY project that I did and would highly recommend is her IKEA play kitchen. I posted a step by step account on that DIY here in a previous post.

 

 

A ton of you have asked for a walking tour of her playroom, so I have included here a little video of her playroom with all of our Halloween decorations!

Click here for video of Dannica’s playroom

And finally, over the past few months I have received so many questions with regards to her teepee, her dollhouse, my chalkboard, and the kitchenette. Here is a list of all the items in Dannica’s playroom, and where I sourced it from:
*Play table and chairs, lounger, small side table, all potted plants, kitchenette, and kitchen toys are from IKEA.
*Custom mounted chalkboard is from Mirrorlot. My husband bought this for me as an early birthday present, and to this day, it is my favorite present I’ve ever gotten!
*Teepee is from Shop Little Wanderer
*Mounted bookshelf is from Pottery Barn Kids
*Flower garland is from Fancy Free Finery
*Dollhouse is by Plantoys
*Shopping cart (that I DIYed) is from Amazon
*Chandelier is from RH Baby & Child
*Halloween decorations are all from Micheal’s (they are having a 60% off sale on all things Halloween!).
I think I have covered everything here in this post, but please feel to leave any questions or comments if I missed something… 🙂 As you can probably tell, I love to share and exchange information!

THE HALFWAY MARK!

  • Oct 2, 2017

One is super happy and the other knows what’s really up the second time around 😉

I can’t believe that I’m already halfway through my pregnancy! Everything has been so different this time around. So many of my friends told me that the second pregnancy will be harder yet still go by faster, but it didn’t really sink in until I was actually going through it myself.

Pregnant with Dannica here <3

My pregnancy with D was such a dream pregnancy. It was smooth sailing from the very beginning. No morning sickness, no taste or smell aversions, no complications, no crazy exhaustion, and no difficulties sleeping until the very very end. I was slammed hard with everything under the sun with this pregnancy. Six weeks in, I was ordered to be on strict bedrest for a week due to heavy bleeding. Each day was agony and torture…not knowing whether or not my baby was still okay. After another ultrasound where they found that the source of my bleeding had started to clot and that our baby was still going strong, all the other pregnancy symptoms just came one after another. Especially the morning (AND evening sickness). Up until 16 weeks or so, I literally felt like death. And the exhaustion was something I was not prepared for. I felt like even after 20 hours of sleeping, I was still tired?!?! This did not bode well for being a stay at home mom with a very demanding and hands on toddler…

All 3 in one shot thanks to my amazing husband!!

But 20 weeks in, I am now (yes!!) thoroughly enjoying my pregnancy and seeing the bright side of being pregnant the second time around. First thing is that I felt the baby’s movements so much sooner!! I didn’t feel D’s first kick until 24 weeks in. With this one, it’s been nonstop since 16 weeks and I L O V E it. It’s so reassuring to feel the movements and makes the whole pregnancy feel more “real”.
The second thing has been that I just generally feel more zen. I remember with D’s pregnancy, I used to stay up until all hours of the night googling about what could go wrong, and all the horror stories about labor and delivery. I used to obsess about whether or not she was alright in there. I even borrowed my friend’s doppler and used it everyday to hear her heartbeat. I was a bit much, and I’m so grateful that my poor husband just smiled and went along with all my antics through the whole journey.
The third thing is that it is flying by!! With D’s pregnancy, I was literally counting down one slow single day at a time. I was all brushed up on what milestone was happening at what week and journaled about everything and quite possibly more. With this pregnancy, I often find myself counting back to figure out what week I’m in, and then quickly forget again the next day!
At any rate, I also wanted to share some things that I have been absolutely loving with this pregnancy. Nothing is sponsored or endorsed—they are all truly products that my mama friends have recommended to me, and I have in turn fallen in love with them for various reasons.
1. Mustela Double Action Stretch Mark Cream—I used this with D’s pregnancy as well and didn’t get any stretch marks. I apply a liberal amount after every shower and just love it. I love the consistency of it, the smell, and would like to think that it will work again 🙂 !
2. “Hello in there”—this book was recommended to me by two very discerning mama friends. It is an interactive book about a little girl’s relationship with her baby sibling growing in her mama’s belly. It is just so sweet and D just loved it. I can’t recommend this book enough for those of you who are preparing their little ones in becoming an older sister.
3. AG maternity jeans—I didn’t buy any maternity clothes while pregnant with D because I just could not stomach the idea of spending so much money on clothes I would wear for such a short period of time. I am now the biggest convert in maternity jeans. After some internal struggle, I bought these full belly paneled maternity jeans by AG and I LIVE in them. They go with everything and are so comfortable that I already know I’ll be wearing them post partum. I know it is very expensive, but just one pair goes such a long, long way!
4. Vitafusion pre-natal chewable gummy vitamins. I hate pills. Having gone through IVF multiple number of times, I am just tired of pills and needles. These gummy vitamins are truly delicious—they taste like treats!
5. Leachco Back N Belly Body Pillow—if you’re having major sleep issues, this is your best friend. It supports and snuggles you in all the right areas so that you can have a restful night of sleep! (There are also videos on all the different variations you can position it in.)
I hope some of these tips will help you in your pregnancy and would love love love to hear any tips you may have that helped you in your pregnancy!

FAMILY PHOTOS WITH SMITTEN & SWOON

  • Jun 8, 2017
FAMILY PHOTOS WITH SMITTEN & SWOON

If people ask me what my most valuable possession is, I will not hesitate to say that they are my family photos and albums. From all the big events like my wedding day or Dannica’s first step to all the tiny yet equally important events like the face Dannica made when she had her first broccoli, I want to document them all and make sure that I never forget them. It’s such a paradox because as much as I love photos and taking them, I have a hard time being in photos. A part of it is because I am painfully awkward when someone takes a photo of me (who isn’t right?! Am I smiling too much? What do I do with my hands?! Where am I looking?), but a larger part of it is because I am such a control freak about how I want each photo to be taken that I don’t trust anyone but myself to do it!

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D’Ann’s unbelievably breathtaking backyard.

When I was pregnant, I knew I wanted to have Dannica’s newborn photos as well as our family photos taken professionally. I thank my lucky stars that I met D’Ann from Smitten & Swoon. We first exchanged emails when I was about 6 months pregnant and then we went back and forth, tossing around ideas on what we wanted to accomplish for Dannica’s newborn session. She always creates a shared Pinterest board to fully grasp your vision and is so hands on and collaborative from the beginning. When we met for the first time (a week after I gave birth), I just knew that she was going to be in my life forever. She is a lifestyle photographer, but she is really so much more than that.

D’Ann’s beautiful place with the barn her husband built with his own two hands in the background.

She lives on the most beautiful piece of land with rolling hills, luscious green trees, and crested mountains. She tends to the most beautiful garden you can possibly dream of in her backyard. Her photo studio is a cottage straight out of a fairy tale. She and her husband also have two beautiful children, two adorable dogs, two of the most stunning horses you can imagine—one black and one white stallion, and so many other barn animals. (By the way, her husband BUILT their barn!) With so many resources at her fingertips, a photo session with her is only limited by your imagination.

One of her gentle and sweet horses, Sebastian.

Amidst her garden

Our newborn session was a daylong affair but the time just flew by. She is an animal and baby whisperer and I could not believe how easily she would coax a smile out of Dannica. I could not believe how patiently she would wait for that perfect little baby yawn and stretch that we mothers melt a million times over for. She captured all the yummy newborn baby details—I was in near tears when I reviewed the gallery because by then, Dannica already lost all of her fresh newborn look. It only solidified in my mind how glad I was to have documented every bit of it. It is heart breaking how short that stage is.

My ALL time favorite photo. EVER.

She knits and makes all her newborn outfits. She has baskets upon baskets of the most adorable accessories and clothes.

We used this as our birth announcement!

She also did Dannica’s 3, 6, 9 month and 1 year session and each session was just so much fun. She always creates a fresh Pinterest board for the perfect session. For example we did a tea party themed session for Dannica’s 9 month session because we were throwing an Alice in Wonderland themed birthday party for her one year. And then for her one-year session, we did an UP!/balloon themed session, which I loved too!

Tea party themed 9 month session taken in front of her wall of peonies.

She seriously makes magic.

Amidst all the blooms in her stunning garden.

1 year UP session

I am so excited that Dannica’s 2 year old session is coming up. I always catch myself daydreaming about what we will do, and what D’Ann has planned. We decided to go for a Secret Garden theme for this session. So far we are thinking lots of blooms, wildflowers, and green, green meadows. I cannot WAIT for our session and I cannot WAIT to share with you the final photos!!! If you want to see photos that will just take your breath away and transport you to a fairy tale that you have dreamed of growing up, you have to check out her portfolio and her instagram.

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Smitten & Swoon | www.smittenandswoon.com | @smittenandswoon

DIY | PLAYHOUSE EDITION

  • May 26, 2017
DIY | PLAYHOUSE EDITION

When my parents-in-laws bought Dannica a playhouse for her Christmas present, I was blown away by their generosity and also secretly wanted to play in it myself! Many of you who follow me on instagram have asked me about her playhouse.

The original playhouse is the Aspen All Cedar Wood Playhouse by Backyard Discovery. You can find it here. We absolutely love this playhouse–it has a small built in kitchenette, working mailbox, a mini fence, dining cafe bench, and other cooking accessories. Here it is before we made it over:

Original Playhouse

I loved the house, but I really had this vision of it being a summer cottage by the beach rather than it being a wooden log cabin in the mountains 🙂 With that in mind, I poured over the colors because I definitely wanted to go with purple accents, bluish grays for the exterior and simple white for the interior. The key to gray is to pay close attention to the undertones. Do not pay any attention to paint swatches because those rarely if ever convey the true colors in real life. Gray is such a subtle color that any undertone will completely overtake it. So if it is a gray with a slightly blue undertone, you will end up with a wall that looks pastel blue. A color more suitable for your firstborn son rather than a summer cottage.

The first step is to dismantle the house so that you can easily paint it with minimal taping. Another tip is to sand the house down if you want a smooth finish. I personally didn’t sand the house down because I wanted a rougher finish. If you like the paint colors I chose, the roof is Kendall Charcoal, exterior walls are Stonington Gray, all trims, fence and interior walls are Simply White, and the bench and front door is Chelsea Gray (all paint colors are by Benjamin Moore’s exterior paint). By the way, my favorite all time accent gray is Chelsea Gray and I use this color a LOT.

Next was just sprucing up the inside and adding textures and textiles to make it feel more homey and warm. The floral garland is by Fancy Free Finery, the drapes and small end table (which I spray painted white) are from Ikea and you can purchase the kiddie sized Adirondack chair here. The “Oh Joy! Rainbow” and “Home Sweet Home” welcome mats are both from Target. I later added a small rug inside that isn’t pictured here, but it is the perfect size and the perfect little outdoor rug for only $6.99 from Ikea (you can purchase it here). All other accessories are from Michael’s.

Dannica says bye bye and come visit again!

This playhouse has already provided hundreds of hours of fun for Dannica. I hope you enjoyed this little playhouse makeover! And of course, please feel free to ask me any questions!!

BABY FEVER

  • Mar 29, 2017
BABY FEVER

So I have always wanted to be a mother. Even when I was six years old, I was basically like a mother hen to my younger sister. I volunteered all throughout high school as a summer camp counselor, and then worked as an assistant at my college day care center looking over the most delicious babies. I think I had baby fever ever since I was a baby!

After I moved to Colorado and got married, my husband and I wanted kids right away. But it didn’t happen that way. We found out that I had several fertility issues (PCOS, pre-diabetes, a misshaped cervix and uterus–a lot!). We underwent several IUIs and IVFs and I was able to get pregnant twice. One I miscarried and the other ended up being an ectopic pregnancy. I was admitted into the ER late one night because I was doubling over in pain, and the ultrasound showed that the baby had implanted in my left tube. The doctors insisted that I had to abort the pregnancy and I went through two rounds of Methotrexate (a form of Chemotherapy). I remember feeling so broken and betrayed by my body. I felt like I was drowning and my life was spinning out of control.

My husband and I decided to pause on the fertility treatments and just live life. After a while there was just so much sadness and hurt over the loss and pain that I forgot about all the other blessings I had in life. It was time to stop mourning. So we adopted a puppy whom we fell madly in love with. And then that very month we brought Bella home–I found out I was expecting. Two little angels. Two little miracles.

And thinking back, I honestly would not have it any other way. It made our marriage stronger and deeper. It brought us to Bella, who gives our family so much joy. It makes us celebrate every single day we can call ourselves parents. And to finally have a healthy baby girl, to feel her heartbeat against my chest when I snuggle her, to see her take her first wobbly steps, to hear her say mama and dada…we would do everything all over and over and over again.